There have been more misunderstandings going on in your circle lately, and this needs to come to a halt. It's causing too much stress and useless discourse. Next time confusion erupts, you need to get the interested parties in the same room together, even if it's online. Trying to solve this issue over texts is only going to make the problem worse. You can't move on to more good times unless you put an end to arguments and tension. Honesty is the fastest, smartest route to take, too.